choose the right friends

you may have some people in your life that you really love and care about. You try to help them as much as you can but in helping them they cause you to hurt yourself. If you have such people in your life its time to let them go.  you may love them very much but the fact is if you have to destroy yourself in order to build them and most of the time they not even doing anything to help themselves much less you.  if this is the case then you will have to let them go. Its time to choose friends that can help you build up yourself and add value to your life rather than cause you to self destuct for their sake.  They are not true friends!!!!!!!